GURU

गुरु,शिक्षक, मार्गदर्शक, ये सिर्फ कोरे शब्द नहीं हैं बल्कि हमारे भविष्य को रचने वाले रचनाकार, कलाकार हैं| गुरु ही हैं जो हमें हमारे अतीत के अन्धकार से निकालते हैं, हमारे वर्त्तमान को संवारते हैं और हमारे भविष्य को प्रकाशमय करते हैं |
पौराणिक काल से भारतवर्ष में गुरु शिष्य परंपरा चली आ रही है | अद्वेतारक उपनिषद में लिखा है :-

गु शब्द स्त्वन्ध्कारः स्यात् रु शब्द स्तन्निरोधकः|
अन्धकार निरोधित्वात गुरुरित्यभिधीयते ||

गुरु दो शब्दों से बना है, ‘गु’ और ‘रु’ पहले शब्द का अर्थ है अन्धकार और दुसरे शब्द का अर्थ है अन्धकार से निकालने वाला |
भगवद गीता की चौथे अध्याय में श्रीकृष्ण अर्जुन से गुरु के बारे कहते हैं:-

तद्विधि प्रनिपातेन परिप्रश्नेन सेवया |
उपदेक्ष्यन्ति ते ज्ञानं ग्यानिंस्त्त्वदर्शिनः ||४:३४||

हे अर्जुन उस ज्ञान को तू तत्वदर्शी ज्ञानियों के समक्ष जाकर, उनको भली भाँती दंडवत प्रणाम करने से उनकी सेवा करने से और कपट का त्याग कर सरलतापूर्वक प्रश्न करने से वे भली भांति जाननेवाले ज्ञानी महात्मा तुझे उस तत्वज्ञान का उपदेश देंगे |
आदि शंकराचार्य ने कहा है कि ज्ञान देने का सबसे सही तरीका है मार्गदशन करना ना कि विद्यार्थी के सवालों का त्वरित उत्तर देना | शिक्षक को चाहिए कि वो अपने विद्यार्थियों से संवाद करें ताकि वो जवाब को खोज कर समझ सकें |
गुरु के बिना गती नहीं मिलती | लेकिन हर कोई आपका गुरु नहीं बन सकता | ग्रंथों ने भी कहा है कि सही गुरु को ढूंढते समय मनुष्य को अपने विवेक और लगन का प्रयोग करना चाहिए |
कुल अर्नव तंत्र में लिखा है कि :-
शिष्यों से धनार्जन करने वाले, उनको धनविहीन करने वाले अनेकों अनेक गुरु मिलेंगे, लेकिन अपने शिष्य को कष्टों से निवारण दिलाने वाला गुरु बहुत कठिनाई से मिलते हैं |
आज Indian Education System बहुत ही दयनीय स्थिति में है | आज schools में सिर्फ रट्टा लगाने वाले पैदा हो रहे हैं | आज लोगों के पास marks बहुत हैं लेकिन ज्ञान नहीं | Schools अपने exterior और interior पे करोड़ों खर्च कर रहे हैं लेकिन education पर नहीं | Education महंगे schools या AC Classrooms से नहीं आता | आज education का मकसद सिर्फ पैसा कमाना ही रह गया है | Values, Morals, Ethics इन सब की अहमियत रही ही नहीं | ज्ञान का वजूद ख़त्म होता जा रहा है |
आज शिक्षकों पे जिम्मेदारी आन पड़ी है कि ज्ञान का प्रकाश एक बार फिर से फैलाएँ | एक शिक्षक शाम दाम दंड भेद का मिश्रण होना चाहिए | एक शिक्षक अगर शिक्षा देने से कतराता है, एक शिक्षक अगर अपने students से भयभीत होता है और एक शिक्षक अगर ज्ञान को सिर्फ पैसे से तौलता है तो वो शिक्षक है ही नहीं |
इस video के माध्यम से मैं हर गुरु का धन्यवाद करता हूँ जिन्होंने directly\indirectly मुझे सदमार्ग दिखाया और ज्ञान रूपी महासागर में गोता लगाना सिखाया | मैं अपने सभी students का भी धन्यवाद करता हूँ क्योंकि हर दिन आपसे बहुत कुछ सिखने को मिलता है | आइये हम सब मिलकर गुरु शिष्य के इस पावन परंपरा को आगे बढ़ाते हैं और ज्ञान का आदान प्रदान और प्रसार करते हैं |
गुरु ब्रह्मा, गुरु विष्णु, गुरुदेवो महेश्वरः |
गुरु साक्षात परम ब्रह्म तस्मै श्री गुरुवेनमः ||

EBSI/Dreams/Goals/Money

Tips for Personality Development & Motivation

Tips for personality development

First of all, you need to be aware of which way you are heading and then take steps to work on that. Everyone has the ability to determine about right and wrong. So observe your loopholes and study it practically in day to day life which is the most reliable way to improve yourself. Besides this, there are numerous techniques to use to get rid of negative attributes for a person and work on personality development.

These tips are easy to grasp as well as very effective and powerful – apply them in your everyday life.

Goal Setting:

This is the main factor for self improvement. If you want success then first decide your goal and follow them as a person who have already decided his/her goal then their lives have a stable focus. Without target a person is hopelessly wandering of his or her life and surely stumble upon some problems such as depression, ADD (attention deficiency disorder), addiction, etc.

Use of Quantum Power:

This indicates the requirement to look at the deep and obscured powers of the subconscious mind which is incredibly powerful and we can do impossible things about ourselves if we can dig profound inside our subconscious mind. Through meditation, this assists to achieve deeper concentration. It boosts retaining power and decreases studying time.

Communication Skill Activities: 

Communication is one area that may prove as a bungle up for most people. It is very important to have an effective communication skill. To teach communication skills through exercises and activities is one of the effective ways. Individuals are helped by communication skill activities to open up and leave one with a winner’s attitude.Don’t give in to the negative inner voice:

Don’t pay attention on hopeless negative voice which says that you can’t achieve your goals as it is only a fear-based voice of your ego and not the voice of truth. Remember that it does not mean anything so never quit as a negative self-talk in your head.

Study and Read Articles on Motivation:

Keep focused on your goals and to do this, study articles, books or even listen to cassette tapes on motivation. You will find about many successful people who will motivate you by telling that even when they wanted to quit and throw in the towel, some lines of paragraph or something a motivational speaker said place them again on the right track and assisted them to reach their goals. 

Take constant action:

You have to take action like clockwork to maintain the force going which will generate results and that will motivate you to carry on. Whatever the result comes, don’t think about it as if you once stop taking action your growth will stop. So don’t make this mistake.

Organization:

Organize every thing to make things convenient. Before placing things arrange them in order. For instance, when you receive orders in the mail then arrange them in 3 piles. Place in the 1st pile the letters that need to be answered immediately. Letters that can be answered at a later date you can put in the 2nd pile and letters that have orders in them; you can put in the 3rd pile. Doing things like this in other areas of your life will help you to keep things in priority and keep you focused on your goals.

Stay Calm:

Today everyone is rushing and bustling to do hundreds of things. You feel your life is like a river, a never-ending flow. Nerves are bound to get ragged in the process. This condition is alike in every household and every place of work. Staying calm and composed is of paramount importance at the situations and in routine life staying calm is essential without feeling uncomfortable at the drop of a hat.

Recognizing the power of positive practice:

An individual is asked to embrace the power of positive practice by self improvement which will assist a person in rinsing negative feelings from one’s surrounding and from their acuity. A person will surely be directed by this to look for the right trail and encouraged to go ahead with a positive objective.

Other tips to follow:

• To progress in life, honestly analyze the traits of your character.
• A great way to develop your personality is by listening everyone politely, although their ideas are baseless or not of your interest.
• During conversation do not keep talking yourself too much.
• Make other feel that you love them.
• In case of defeat, keep your moral high and be more respectful on being victorious.
• Solve your problems in a creative way. Do all you can and not let these ruin your relations with your friends.
• Make a list of your bad habits and try to get rid of them.
• Don’t uplift your standard of living but help others to do so. Try to remove the feeling of lowliness in others by loving them and by keeping good manners towards them.
• Beware of what you say about others as others will say the same thing about you at different times and at different places and thus form a public opinion about yourself.
• Some people repeatedly have a favorite sentence which they repeat frequently. Try and get rid of this habit.
• Independence increases good qualities and personality while slavery bad qualities.
• Independent thinking and liberty to work is the only source of progress and welfare.
• Do every thing with help of love as love is the greatest magic in this world. Develop this art and improve your personality.
• Every person should adjust with others, because basically man is a social animal, so one cannot survive by living alone.

AFFIRMATION EXERCISE

What are the three best things that happened to you today?
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What are you most grateful for?
Do you feel any differently now than you did yesterday?
Did anything fun or important or unexpected happen today?
Did this exercise help you to really pack more power into your affirmations?

Affirmation Sign-Off

Say this with intention: Congratulations (say your name or say self, whichever you’re most comfortable with). I have just finished Day One of my affirmations program! I feel awesome, able to create anything I desire.

I am unstoppable.

Celebration Signature ______________________________________

Date _______________

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     Find your favorite place in or around your house, the place that makes you the happiest. Throw your arms wide open and say this with all the intention and passion you can: My affirmations work!

       Say it again at least 10 times, each time with intention, passion, enthusiasm, all those things that raise your vibration level.

  On a note card, write the following: My affirmations work! I believe that my affirmations work no matter what! I have absolute certainty and confidence that my affirmations work for me.

     Say each of these affirmations over and over until you find that you really believe them. This might take ten or more times, but that’s okay. The important point is to really get the feeling that your affirmations work!

    

   Wish you Luck and Success

     Govind Mishra

  

LITTLE THINGS MATTER

It’s been said that "life turns on small things". Sometimes it’s hard to see how small choices can change your life. But when compounded over time, the little things can make the biggest difference. The little things that lead to success are mostly easy to do. You just have to do them. It might be as simple as getting up on time, prioritizing schoolwork, putting in an extra 10 minutes of practice or using some of her spare time to help someone else.

Nineteen‐year‐old Rahul, used to be on his school basketball team and would play every day after school. When the season was over, he had an empty three hours a day and didn’t know how to use his extra time. So he started spending an hour every day looking for ways to help other kids. Over the last few years, his projects have raised thousands of rupees to help abused, homeless and sick children. Even with all he has accomplished, Rahul sees himself as a regular teenager. “I’m a normal kid with normal friends,” he says. “I play video games and sports. I’m nothing special. It doesn’t take anything spectacular to have an influence like I’ve had. I just put in a little effort every day.”

Rahul took advantage of the time he had and made a positive impact, but it didn’t happen right away. It took time for his commitment to have significant results. He spent just a little time each day generating something that ended up benefiting a lot of kids. The important thing to understand is that Rahul made the positive decisions necessary for success. He saw an opportunity and took action. SO ALWAYS DO THE LITTLE THINGS, BIG THINGS WILL COME TO YOU AUTOMATICALLY